Eureka, IL Children For Sale - What's In Your County?
I am a Domestic Violence Survivor of 8 yrs. My duaghter is 7 and it had taken over 3 yrs. to break out of the violence, with a controlled income to establish a new residence. As of 11/2005 all rights have been stripped as a mother and my daughter has been given back to her abuser with the help of a small town school and politics. He is now requesting I pay him child support and all health expenses, ins. etc. in a now openly practicing bigotted courhouse in Woodford County, IL. 11th district.
My ex-husband and I live in the same small town. Through a bigoted county courthouse in Woodford County, IL (Eureka) and political ties in a local church slowly he arranged his position in this community as an upstanding citizen. My ex-husband sued me for full child custody to get out of paying child support with his income level of $80,000.00 +. He stated he had friends in the court system through his church and something as simple as the sport leagues he plays within the church. He threatened a surprise was waiting for me and my daughter.
The States Atty. Office assistant in the court House 3rd floor, further reflected the overall biased by being openly disrespectful holding a pamphlet book on womans rights & domestic violence just out of my reach and with a smile on his face told me in front of my present husband, "Your ex-husband can come up to you any time and place get in your face, call you a dirty "B" and there's not a thing you can do about it". This was the same assistant who over the phone that very morning back in October of 2003 pretended to be Mike Strohe and threatened to put my daughter in Jouvenille court. I reported it, but nothing was done about it. In fact the judge there laughed and said, "You can make all the complaints you want..." and continued to chuckle.
Even with all the concrete evidence against my exhusband showing child abuse on his part and breaking orders of protection on video cam and pictures, the Judge awarded him full custody. The Judge laughingly stated he knew little of child-law and openly mocked my being in that courtroom as well as my spiritual beliefs and calling my ex-husband’s abusive behavior my responsibility in showing poor support and attitude. This same judge in 2003 threatened to take my child from me personally in advance if I did not quit complaining.
I have been in the court system for over 4 years. My ex-husband still harasses and keeps my daughter from seeing me. I have seen her only on 2 occasions ( when he needed a babysitter) since the last court of Sept of 2005.
In early January, I contacted the Court house in Eureka, IL because I had not received any paper work from anyone at all that shows a trial was held or transfer of child custody to my ex, what rights I might have, etc. The Clerk transfered me to the Judges chambers where I spoke with the secretary, she placed me on hold and told me that my case was under review on the Judges desk and my paperwork was inaccessable to me at this time. She told me they would get back with me. I have yet to hear from anyone in writing or phone call and now my ex-husband is sueing me yet again. I've lost employment opportunities due to the constant court notices of having to appear in person at court.
In requesting a copy of court transcripts I was informed that the transcripts cost over $3,400.00 to retrieve for the 2 afternoons of hearings.
When my daughter was visiting me she was miserable and depressed to return to a father who my daughter tells me all the time she is not loved by him in any way.
Slowly we are finding this attitude has been around for some time. This is not a first by any means for this judge and other women he has encountered.
After court costs and loss of job we may now possibly even lose our home. I guess that is only more evidence for the pot. Up until this judge we both (my current husband and I) had excellent credit. If there had to be another example made by this judge of his bigotry, in a way to me it is beneficial to other women it was me. For him and anyone involved in helping him it will prove to be decision that will end in righting a judicial wrong!
We The People hold these judges in contempt of our courts! Our children are simply NOT for sale!!